逃避，不如直面 ——浅谈“逃避主义”的根源

摘　要

逃避这一现象是现代社会的一种潮流，深受人们欢迎。然而，即使人们对这一现象十分熟悉，但都缺乏对它的深入理解和思考。因此我们必须明白什么是真正的逃避，即逃避的定义， 逃避是指当人们在现实生活中遇到困难和问题时，他们并不是通过一系列措施来解决所面临的问题从而面对现实，却是选择逃避的方式。通过仔细思考，对于我们来说得出那些的问题的解决措施其实并不难。由于不同的人面临不同的困难和问题,他们便有不同的逃避方式。通过分析这一系列逃避现象, 提出人们产生逃避的真正原因。然后列举出一系列有说服力的逃避现象并阐述其危害。针对其危害,制定出解决这一问题的措施。最后得出结论,说明为了不承担本属于自己的痛苦和责任,人们总是选择逃避。然而人们所做的一切都是徒劳的。他们的行为只是将问题变得更为复杂而已,因此唯一有效的方法是当痛苦和困难降临到我们身上时,一定要大胆地面对而不是逃避。

 

关键词

逃避；困难；直面

Abstract

Escaping from reality is a kind of trend in modern society; many people have a great interest in it. Although people are familiar with this phenomenon, they still have no deep understanding and thinking about it. So we should know that what the definition of escape is. In fact, escape is that when people confronted with pains and difficulty in their daily life, they do not take relevant measures to solve these problems and bravely face the reality, but choose the way of escape. Through carefully thinking, actually, it is not difficult for us to gain the methods to deal with these problems. Due to different people facing different problems, there are different channels to escape. By analyzing a series of ways of escape, I will give out the real roots of bearing escape. Then list some persuasive phenomena and illustrate their harm. In the light of harm, I will raise some measures to solve these problems. At last I will make a conclusion and illustrate in order not to afford their own pains and responsibilities, people always choose to escape. However, all their efforts are in vain. Their behavior just makes these problems become more complex. Therefore, the only effective way is to face them bravely when pains and difficulty befall us.

Key Words

Escape; difficulty; face